About 5 years ago, I co-led a group of 21 strangers from the US to Zambia for a month. My co-leader, Nick, and I had only communicated via email and video chats prior to leaving for training camp. When I think about my life to this point, I definitely point to that month as a…
Read moreA tale about trauma
We have almost been licensed foster parents for three years. Eight long term placements have been through our home and a ton more respite and shorter term kids have been through as well. The ages we have welcomed home for any length have been aged newborn-13 years old. Most, if not all, have come from…
Read moreBittersweet
Foster care is weird. It brings on roller coaster emotions that can change in an instant. I’m “used” to it, but how is anyone ever really “used” to it? I have realized that what I mean when I say I am “used” to it is that I have grown accustomed to suppressing the big emotions….
Read morekeeping it real
A few nights ago, I came home from a long day at work to my favorite little smiles. I love the hugs and giggles that meet me at the door. They can make any day better. After we danced and played with dinosaurs, we put the little humans to bed. As soon as I shut…
Read moreLoving through pain
Have you ever purchased something that required assembly to use? I am TERRIBLE at assembly. My coat rack that leans slightly to the left is a great example why. When it was first purchased, I opened the box and looked for the directions. It had pictures and seemed fairly simple. I was very optimistic that…
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