Normal Kids From Foster Care

Recently, I was with a bunch of my parents’ friends at a party for their 40th wedding anniversary. Most, if not all, of these humans have been around my life for over 15 years. Many of them have children that are the friends I grew up around after we moved to central Iowa.  Many of…

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Forever Day-Year 2

Tomorrow, March 25th 2022, is Tripp’s forever day. He has been adopted for TWO years already. It is so crazy to think that day was two years ago. In some ways, it seems like a lifetime ago. In other ways, it seems like yesterday.  Even two years later, I have so many deep feelings about…

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Hope Renewed.

This is a topic I’ve wanted to write about for awhile. I have sat down to write it several times and have thought about what I wanted to say often.  My struggle to write this has been the desire to share and spread awareness while also protecting my children at all cost. Advocacy is sometimes…

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Thoughts with Koko-12/26/21 Reflecting on the Christmas Season

The past few Christmas holidays were rough for our me and our family.  In 2019, we were in the thick of the Tripp’s case. We were past the worst days, but still in a holding pattern. I was frustrated at the situation. I never thought we would celebrate his second christmas with us and he…

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Big Dreams to Change the World

A few weeks ago, I couldn’t sleep. Nothing on my mind in particular was keeping me awake. It was just one of those nights where I couldn’t relax. I grabbed my phone and opened up the note section. Without much thought I started typing and didn’t stop until I got everything out of my mind….

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